Planning Together for Children is a programme that promotes co-operative parenting by helping both parents understand the impact of separation and conflict on children.
The programme is for parents who have been ordered to attend by the Family Courts, or who are attending before their hearing in agreement with their Cafcass officer.
It encourages parents to think about how they can communicate and work together to agree parenting arrangements without further court hearings and helps parents understand how disagreements and arguments can affect children.
How it works
There are several stages to the programme:
Online elearning course
Parents complete a self directed e-learning course online. You’ll be emailed a log in by Cafcass which you’ll need to use within 72 hours before it expires.
- Interactive activities and videos focus on topics including what happens when parents go to court, understanding and managing emotion, how separation affects children, and understanding separation from a child’s point of view.
- Parents can work through the course activities and videos in eight 10-minute parts logging in and out at their own pace, taking around two hours in total.
Group workshop
Once this is complete, parents take part in a two hour workshop run on Zoom for around five parents. The course is run during the daytime including at weekends or split over two consecutive evenings into one hour sessions, which can be helpful for parents with small children. It is delivered to small groups of around five male and female parents by experienced, trained and friendly facilitators and takes two and a half hours.
The course provides a safe place to:
- Learn what children need most when their parents are separating
- Develop practical skills and ideas to improve communication and reduce conflict
- Get support from parents in similar situations
- Access additional support available to parents and children
- Understand and reflect on the emotional impact of separation on parents
Both parents need to complete the programme separately. Co-parents will not be booked on the same session.
Online parenting plan
The course also introduces parents to an interactive online parenting plan. The plan encourages agreement over sharing the care and support of children. Parents are encouraged to share the plan in a way that is understandable to the children.
For some parents, there may also be a follow-up phone call from a trainer up to six weeks after the workshop to see how things are working out.
If you feel there are any reasonable adjustments that will help you attend and fully participate please let us know before the course and we will do our best to help.
Who is the service for
Family Action run the service for parents court-ordered to attend in Greater Manchester, South and West Yorkshire, Liverpool, Merseyside, Birkenhead, Chester and Crewe, Cheshire, Essex and Suffolk, Reading and Guildford. We run the service with our partners Action for Children.
Parents are either directed by the Court to attend or attend before their hearing in agreement with their Cafcass officer. If court-ordered they are required to go. A Cafcass-funded service, there is no charge to these parents to attend. An interpreter service is available including for parents who use BSL and we provide additional support if you need it.
The programme is appropriate if there are no current safeguarding concerns about children or parents.
How to book your place
Cafcass will email you a log in link to start your course. They’ll then forward your details to us and we’ll get in contact with you the following day with more information.
Cafcass expects you to complete soon after your Court date, completing the elearning in ten days and the group session soon afterwards. There is no charge to attend the course.
The difference we make
What parents say
“It has helped me understand the effects that the separation between us may have had on our children.”
“Was good to talk to other people going through similar stuff. It was nice to know you’re not the only one.”
“Amazing. Very good at involving everyone and helping you to understand difficult situations.”
“Done extremely well considering the difficulties we’re all facing. I was put at ease and felt comfortable for the whole of the course.”
Parent comments 2023
For any queries contact us:
Tel: 020 7241 7456 (Monday-Friday 10am-4pm)
[email protected]
We constantly monitor our emails so drop us a line for a response within a few hours.
We receive a high volume of calls so please leave a voicemail if the line is busy. We will get back to you within two working days.
If you want local information about the programme or to find out about volunteering to support the programme contact our local coordinators:
Sonia Husnain [email protected] 07385 001074 (Cheshire, Liverpool, Manchester and Greater Manchester, South and West Yorkshire)
Catherine Roberts [email protected] 07833394819 (Berkshire, Essex, Suffolk, Surrey, Sussex)
